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Post by stinky666 on Feb 11, 2006 13:31:40 GMT
This debate is ann ongoing one, everyone has their own views on it, and im sure you all do..
Is abortion right? Should abortion be legal? Or should it be made illegal? What about if someone for example was raped, or abused, shouldnt that mean that that woman/girl should be able to have the baby aborted? What if the girl is only a teenager and is totally not ready for a baby as it will ruin her life as she is so young, shouldnt she be able to have an abortion then? And i hear you say "Teenagers should use contreception if they dotn want a baby" but many many people/teenagers do, its just contreception isnt 100% certain to keep you from not getting pregnant..
Shouldnt it all depend on the circumstances of 'ones' life? What about the father, should he have a right to say whether he wants it aborted or not? What if the woman wants it aborted but the male wants to keep it, shouldnt he be able to have a say in the matter? Should there be some sort of law or something saying "both to-be parents should agree on whether or not the baby should be aborted or shouldnt be aborted"?
What do you think on this matter?
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Post by Charmed One on Feb 12, 2006 0:31:21 GMT
Here's what I think. I don't like abortion that much. It's kind of like legal murder. I would understand the circumstances if an abortion needs to be performed, but maybe an alternative way, like maybe science can find a way to transfer the embryo to another mother, or maybe freeze it until the original mother wants to have it.
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Post by Charmed_boy on Feb 12, 2006 15:48:16 GMT
Well, I also say that abortion is kinda legal murder, in some places. But CharmedOne92, untill we do not have that kind of cientific medicine, I think we should preocupy on what we have now, and what can we do to help everyone.
I would agree on abortion, if the mother got accidently pregnant (abuse, lack of charge, etc) although I tottaly do not like the idea.
But I would not agree if one of the parents is ok on having it, cos if one wants, than the baby would be 50% in good hands, and with time the other parent would also get in the routine of helping the baby, but this is more when the fathers want the baby, cos when the mothers want the babies, that is kinda harder.
I would also agree on having the law of "parent to-be agreement", but I think that would give a lot of confusion between the couple.
And in the meantime, I would suggest to create a sort of bank (like blood bank) where people instead of donating blood, they would donate their kids (before they are born) to parents who cannot have babies, but want. It would be sort of and addoption room, but the babies are not born yet.
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Post by Charmed One on Feb 14, 2006 0:02:02 GMT
Very well said, Charmed_boy.
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Post by Charmed_boy on Feb 14, 2006 11:48:47 GMT
Thanks a lot
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Post by ~*~Mistic*Prue~*~ on Feb 24, 2006 23:08:01 GMT
Well, I also say that abortion is kinda legal murder, in some places. But CharmedOne92, untill we do not have that kind of cientific medicine, I think we should preocupy on what we have now, and what can we do to help everyone. I would agree on abortion, if the mother got accidently pregnant (abuse, lack of charge, etc) although I tottaly do not like the idea. But I would not agree if one of the parents is ok on having it, cos if one wants, than the baby would be 50% in good hands, and with time the other parent would also get in the routine of helping the baby, but this is more when the fathers want the baby, cos when the mothers want the babies, that is kinda harder. I would also agree on having the law of "parent to-be agreement", but I think that would give a lot of confusion between the couple. And in the meantime, I would suggest to create a sort of bank (like blood bank) where people instead of donating blood, they would donate their kids (before they are born) to parents who cannot have babies, but want. It would be sort of and addoption room, but the babies are not born yet. WOW thats wonderful you think like that i also think abortions is murder, i know this girl she has had like 3 abortions and 3 kids but she dont take care of her kids so i dint talk to her and another friend was raped and she had her kid and she loves her then theres my sister who cant have a baby and she wants one so bad but cant afford to adopt whats so hard about giving up what you can or dont want theres always someone that will want a baby. Sorry i like to talk
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Post by Charmed_boy on Mar 4, 2006 23:49:53 GMT
Tottaly understandable. Sorry to hear about your sister. But Addoption would be the best option, and since you cannot effort it, I think the best way would be to take care of needed children (from the streets, from parents that do not take care of their kids, etc), if it is legal. Hope you find a good solution
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Post by americangrl69 on Apr 20, 2006 17:45:12 GMT
For the most part I don't agree with abortion. But there are certain circumstances where I could go along with it. Like if you knew the child would be a vegatable it's whole life, then I could see getting an abortion because that's not much of a live anyway. Not that I know if there even is a way to know that ahead of time. But if you person just doesn't want the baby I can't go along with having an abortion because they can always give it up for adoptation. But those are just my opinions.
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Post by Charmed_boy on Sept 17, 2006 12:25:11 GMT
Those are good oppinions. Fertility is decreasing each generation, because of stress, drugs, fast foods, etc. Many people will probably go adopting, in the future. There is no reason for abortion. Besides, the ones who got accidently pregnant, are guilty, because these days, almost everyone knows about condoms.
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